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Thanks for writing about this, Lisa! I really appreciate you laying it all out like this. It’s annoying how adoption is such a convenient trope for so many writers. It’s like... the drama is irresistible in narrative but so easy to dismiss or ignore in actual humans.

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Yes! Adoption sounds exciting and mysterious unless it's your actual life and then it's less fun.

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I have never read anyone with our depth of understanding about adoption. The shame that binds all. So true! Jodi Weisz, adoptee.

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